We Almost Lost Everything. Our marriage. Our family. Our future together.
We know what it's like to battle infidelity, addiction, depression, hopelessness and brokenness. God restored what looked impossible. Today millions of spouses around the world come to Established Family looking for the same hope. Now it's time to build a permanent home where healing, discipleship and restoration can happen for generations to come. Make a tax-deductible donation today!
Letter from Derek
We believe the restoration of family is central to God’s plan for redemption. When the home is aligned with His design, everything downstream—leadership, community, even legacy—begins to heal. That’s what drives every counseling session, teaching, and resource we create. It’s not about us; it’s about what He’s rebuilding in the earth through families.
Established Family exists to see order return where chaos has ruled. We disciple spouses to walk in humility, repentance, and truth so that the fruit of righteousness can be seen in their homes. We believe deliverance is not a moment but a lifestyle—and that the same Spirit who restores marriages also reforms generations.
Your partnership strengthens this mission. It allows us to equip counselors, create Spirit-led resources, and reach families across the world with biblical truth. Every story of renewal reminds us that God is still establishing His covenant through family, and every seed sown into this work carries the weight of that eternal impact.
—Derek Palizay
Founder, Established Family
Marriage the way God designed it.
Established Family International is a 501(c)3 non-profit (EIN 41-5024192) All donations are full tax-deductible, retroactive to March 20th, 2026.
For any questions, email us at team@establishedfamily.com
God Is Restoring Families.
And We Need A Place To Bring Them.
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Every week we meet spouses on the edge of separation. Families trapped in addiction. Parents carrying trauma they never learned how to heal. Children growing up without a picture of God's design. For years we've helped families through coaching, counseling, discipleship, prayer and training. Now we're building the first Established Family Center... A permanent place where marriages can be restored, families can be equipped, and future generations can be transformed. Help us build a home for family restoration.
Make your pledge
This is your covenant seed into the restoration of marriages, families, and generations. Every pledge helps build a permanent place where healing, discipleship, deliverance, and biblical counsel can happen under one roof.
Together, we are establishing a sanctuary where prodigals return, covenant is restored, and families are rebuilt according to God’s original design.
Your generosity does not just fund a building.
It helps create a lasting house of refuge, equipping, and transformation for years to come.
Walk in covenant with us
Don't just "give." We are inviting you to build with us. Walk in covenant with the vision God has entrusted to Established Family—a permanent center for healing, training, gatherings, and restoration.
When you partner with this mission, you become part of the legacy God is establishing through this house, helping create a place where marriages are restored, families are strengthened, and lives are transformed.
And we cannot wait to welcome you in person when these doors open.
This will not only be a place you helped build, but a house you can step into, experience, and encounter alongside us for years to come. Together, we are building something that will impact generations.
Welcome to the covenant
Hi! We are Derek & Jordan
We believe God is a covenant-keeping God, and His promises over your life, marriage, and family are not empty words.
What He speaks, He establishes.
This vision was not built from human ambition, but from a deep conviction that God desires to restore families to His original design and raise up a place where healing, discipleship, and transformation can flourish for generations. Walk in Covenant is rooted in that promise.
This house will stand as a testimony to the faithfulness of God — a place where marriages are strengthened, prodigals return, leaders are equipped, and families encounter the peace, order, and restoration that only comes from Him. We believe the promises of God over your home are bigger than your present season.
As you partner with this vision, you are sowing into a legacy that will outlive all of us — a permanent house where future generations will encounter truth, freedom, and the goodness of God. Thank you for building with us.
Derek & Jordan Palizay
Founders, Established Family
Ready to partner with us?
Make your pledge today and become a founding pledger toward the Established Family Center!
What will our centers make possible?
Every marriage deserves a place for restoration, healing, deliverance, discipleship, and family transformation.
In-Person Gatherings
In-person gatherings where marriages and families can be taught, healed, and equipped in the presence of community.
Marriage Conferences
Marriage Retreats
Family Worship Nights
One-On-One Counseling
In-Person Education
Equipping the current & next generation of counselors, coaches, and practitioners to bring gospel-centered restoration:
Practitioner Seminars
Certification Classes
Marriage Academy Seminars
TheoPsychology Training
Worldwide Media
Expanding our ministry’s worldwide reach through media, digital discipleship, and scalable family restoration resources:
Marriage & Family Challenges
Studio Livestreaming
Global family impact
Digital training resources
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A place of healing, equipping and restoration.
The Established Family Center campus will be available to all to register for events, trainings, counseling, intensives and more. Family worship nights, marriage conferences and select seminars will be provided free with registration. This main campus will become the headquarters for many Established Family Centers to come in the future.
Main Sanctuary
Come join us for monthly family worship nights, quarterly conferences and seminars.
Marriage Intensive Space
Get couple on couple counseling for 1-3 days straight with an Established Intensive.
Counseling Offices
Dedicated offices for marriage and family counseling—services available to all.
Seminar Room(s)
Practitioner seminars where therapists, counselors and pastors can be equipped.
Ministry Impact Report
- 470,000+ ministry followers across platforms
- 150M+ annual viewership on marriage/family trainings
- 9M+ engagements across teaching and media content
- 93,000+ direct messages and prayer requests received
- 100,000+ global challenge participants
Established Family has directly served over 26k spouses through products, coaching and counseling and has reached over 143 countries with the gospel-filled marriage message.